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Lift
Your Spirits
Take a close
look at that glass of water. Half empty? Half full? What you see
could make a difference, not only in your daily health, but in how
long you live.
So say the
results of a new study that tracked 839 people over 30 years. In
the 1960s, study participants took a standardized test to determine
whether they were optimistic, pessimistic or somewhere in between.
Those who scored high on the pessimism scale turned out to have
a 19 percent greater chance of premature death than those who scored
more optimistically.
The
power of optimism
There
are at least four ways that optimism can affect longevity:
- Optimists
tend to be less passive than pessimists and less likely to develop
"learned helplessness" or negative and debilitating
responses to things that happen to them.
- Optimists
tend to be more likely to practice preventive health measures
because they believe their actions make a difference.
- Optimists
suffer depression at
a markedly lower rate than pessimists; depression is associated
with mortality.
- Optimists'
immune systems have been shown to function more effectively than
those of pessimists.
Learning
to see the bright side
For decades, psychologists have studied the link between positive
thinking and physical and mental health. It's more important to
change negative thought patterns into positive ones than to worry
about being optimistic. Optimism is not a blindness to reality,
but a learned optimism grounded in accuracy and non-negative thinking.
Optimist
vs. non-optimist
How can you determine whether you think more optimistically or pessimistically?
Optimists see setbacks as specific, temporary and changeable, and
are therefore motivated to take action. Non-optimists tend to look
at setbacks as general, permanent and hopeless, symptoms of widespread
failure that cannot be changed.
For example,
an optimist who didn't follow through on an exercise routine for
a week might say, "I had a lot going on this week. I didn't
plan my time too well. I'll have to do better next week." A
pessimist in the same situation might say, "I have no self-discipline.
I obviously won't be able to meet my goals. Exercise just isn't
for me."
Getting
into a good mood
Mood has an influence on whether optimistic or pessimistic thoughts
dominate your brain. Three methods optimistic people tend to use
to lift their moods:
- Alternative
thinking
When bad things happen, optimists tend to take them less personally
and come up with multiple alternatives for why they might have
happened, then work actively to fix the situation.
- Downward
comparison
Though it sounds unkind, optimists compare themselves to others
who are in worse situations as a way to brighten their own spirits.
- Relaxation
Optimists tend to use exercise, yoga, and even "putting on
a happy face" as ways to relax and thereby improve their
moods.
Optimism
not always the answer
Optimists are not always healthier than pessimists. Excessive optimism
can actually be harmful to one's health. For instance, optimistic
thinking when making difficult health choices like quitting smoking,
using condoms or wearing seatbelts, can lead to people -- especially
teenagers -- to take risks.
Still, there
are times when optimism can be a powerful ally. When achievement
is the goal, use optimism. If you're fighting off depression, optimistic
thoughts can boost your morale.
Changing
from negative to positive
Optimism, like other interpersonal skills, can be learned. You
may begin by writing about your setbacks and practicing arguing
with your less optimistic thoughts until a more realistic vision
of what has happened and what is likely to happen in the future
emerges.
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